You say that Calvinism is not compatible with the Bible---and yet it is. The only way so far that you have been able to support this statement is by not telling the truth about what it teaches. And you continue in these gross misrepresentations even after you have been shown by those who are Calvinist or Reformed and from direct quotes from Calvin and Luther themselves. So it would appear that you are engaged in deception. Now this may be because you simply have no ability to grasp or understand what is being said, or that like those who lied about Stephen to have him killed and stop preaching the gospel, you have simply stopped up your ears.
Calvinism teaches the truth of John 3:16 and in no way denies it. Whoever believes in Him will have eternal life. They simply say that that faith to believe comes from God, (Him down to us) and not from our own selves (us up to Him.) And they also say that if it is from God, it is then a work of the Holy Spirit towards and in us, considering that the Bible says this. (John 3) They also say, given all the scriptures that use the term, call, called, chosen, given. predestinated, foreknown, elect, in reference to this faith that saves, and considering all the ways of God given from the OT on, (that it is always Him down to us, and that He is sovereign over all) then He must be the one in charge of who receives this faith. That is the way they see those scriptures. There is no twisting of the word, or deception, or ignoring any part of the word, to do so. It can be done legitimately. And all those scriptures that are used to undermine the teachings of Calvinism/Reformed are quite easily simply understood in a more straightforward way, without having to change or ignore the meaning of "called", "before the foundation of the world", "foreknew", "elect", "predestine", "choose", "chosen". They are seen as stating what is necessary for salvation. Belief in the person and work of Jesus. His righteousness, atonement, propitiation, justification, resurrection, ascension.
And though I am sure there are some that will say if you do not believe the way of Calvinism you are not saved, as far as I know it is not an actual assertion of the theology, and would therefore just be people being people---just is that is the case when people stand up and shout that all Calvinists are going to hell. Both are preposterous and an affront to God. Calvinism teaches that all who believe and trust in the person and work of Jesus for eternal life, and Him alone, are saved. And that this faith that saves comes by hearing, as one cannot have faith in something they never heard.
There. Now you have been told again.