I've been blessed with two ENTIRELY traditional marriages (lost my first wife to breast cancer after 33 years, now married to my second for 17). I was aware pretty much every nanosecond what a blessing this was. Since I was a lawyer, many of my coworkers and acquaintances were married to other lawyers or at least Career Women. I absolutely could never understand the appeal of such a relationship, regardless of what income it produced or what fabulous toys they owned.
In a marriage, there are two distinct and equally valuable roles. The only way a "non-traditional" marriage ever made sense to me was if Dad stayed home and truly fulfilled the role of Mom - but since the roles are (I believe) largely gender-based, that really doesn't work. Whether we derive our notions of marriage from the Bible or simply nature, distinct male and female roles certainly seems to be the plan.
In the vast majority of cases, I could never understand why the Career World was more appealing to women than the role of a wife in a traditional marriage. I also loved the lame excuses as to why the woman "had" or "needed" to work - in some cases this may have been true, but not many. I actually used to envy my wives - their roles seemed far more diverse, interesting, challenging and rewarding than my daily drudgery as a lawyer that was supposed to be more "fulfilling" according to the Feminist myth.
Back in the 1970s, in my law school days, when the Feminist movement was still fairly new, one of my professors said "If you think the Civil Rights movement caused massive upheaval, wait until you see what this does." Unpopular as my views may be, I do think the Feminist movement and its ripples have been the single most destructive force in my lifetime.
I had never heard of Estee Williams - surprise, surprise - but the obvious irony that strikes me is that she seems to have forged rather a sizable Career out of being a "Tradwife Influencer." She was apparently a meteorologist before that. I can't say that I sense a lot of authenticity in her videos. She is a cutie, however, if we're allowed to make that observation.